I Babysat My Neighbor’s Son… Then We Both Woke Up With Itchy, Inflamed Spots. What Is This?

When to Seek Care (Red Flags)

Get medical help urgently (same day / urgent care / emergency) if you have any of the following:

  • Shortness of breath, swelling of lips/face/tongue, or trouble swallowing
  • Rapidly spreading hives with dizziness or faintness
  • Fever plus a worsening rash
  • Severe pain, blistering, or rash near eyes
  • Signs of skin infection from scratching: increasing redness, warmth, pus, or red streaks

See a clinician soon (next 24–72 hours) if:

  • The itch is intense and keeping you from sleeping
  • The rash is spreading day by day
  • Multiple household/close contacts are developing similar symptoms
  • You suspect scabies or bed bugs and need confirmation/treatment guidance

Practical Next Steps (What Most People Should Do First)

  • Take clear photos of the rash in good light (helpful for a clinician).
  • Message the parent: timeline, where the child had been, and that you also developed symptoms.
  • Wash/dry bedding and worn clothing on hot if you can.
  • Track whether new spots appear overnight (pattern matters).

You’re not overreacting. “New itchy spots on two people after a visit” is exactly the kind of situation where a quick, structured response beats guessing.

And the biggest mistake people make? Treating the symptom while missing the source.