When Peter died, Dan just showed up. He didn’t ask what I needed or wait for permission. He fixed the garbage disposal Peter had been putting off. He brought groceries when I forgot to eat. He sat with my son in the garage and let him work through his anger with a hammer and some scrap wood.
Dan never once made it about him.
“You don’t have to keep doing this,” I told him one evening, maybe four months after the funeral. He was replacing a lightbulb in the hallway, something I could’ve done myself but hadn’t bothered with.
“I know,” he said, not looking at me. “But Pete would’ve done it for me.”
And that was it. No ulterior motives. No hidden agenda. Just a man keeping a promise to his best friend.